In this paper it is presented an eagle eye view of reality and fantasy, fallowed by the presentation of the two trends – NLP and TA. Neuro Linguistic Programing and Transactional Analysis are rooted in two metaphors: mind as map and mind as computer. Their concepts are selectivelly described with the help of a movie: Finding Neverland (2004). In a nutshell, the world is like a web of thread, lile a web of concepts, disposed in an orderly contradicton.